tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-168611302024-03-07T11:10:32.721-08:00BlacknikeIts my life...black and whiteBadhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.comBlogger270125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-66747067670504779232016-01-13T21:08:00.003-08:002016-01-14T06:37:36.463-08:00Innovation and Science Promotion Foundation - Toys from trash<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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I once taught physics to an under-qualified eighth standard class in a school; they couldn't add two decimal numbers, despite the best efforts of their math teacher. I taught them to experiment an alternate teaching methodology using Arvind Gupta’s <a href="http://www.arvindguptatoys.com/">toys from trash</a> . After a few demos, I challenged them to build toys from scratch, prepare explanatory charts and present it at an intra-class competition in 15 days. I though that would be challenging but achievable. To my surprise, all of them were ready for the competition in two days! I realized how much difference enthusiasm can make. In this case, a demo of 2 hours has brought out what 8 years of rote learning suppressed! Curiosity, creativity and enthusiasm.</div>
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This kind of education should be mainstream! A little research quickly reveals that experts agree! Sir Ken Robinson, in his famous series of <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity">TED talks</a>, said "Creativity should be treated with the same status as literacy". But in the current "industrial model" of education, "..children get educated out of it". Dr. Howard Gardner, famous for his theory on Multiple Intelligence, advocates (a) individuation -tailoring education to individual students - and (2) pluralisation - teaching an idea in different ways - to ensure that all children benefit from education.</div>
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Clearly, fostering curiosity, creativity and to revolutionize learning itself is the need of the hour. Innovation and Science Promotion Foundation (<a href="http://www.ispf.in/">www.ispf.in</a>) is working towards exactly that! Two people, Mr.Vishal Bhatt and Dr. Procheta Malik, with support from the founders have given up promising careers to design toys from trash, conduct workshops in schools and other public forums. During their workshop they work with children and encourage them to tinker with and explore the toys made out of trash.</div>
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I visited their center in The Valley School, Bangalore. They have built over 200 toys (for example, DC motors, electricity generators from wind energy, 3D geometrical models) from items such as batteries, safety pins, cycle tubes, pencils, film-roll boxes and matchsticks. They spend their time in their center tinkering with the toys, coming up with improvements and variants that would help children learn their science without necessarily knowing that they are learning. Their work is inspiring! They owe their own inspiration to the pioneering work by Arvind Gupta, whose staff is primary among their advisers.</div>
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In their one year of existence, they have already achieved over 8000 interactions with children, each usually lasting around two hours. Sometimes they work with children for 15-20 hours over one week.</div>
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“Thanks to the conditioning around us, all of us come to believe that being scientific is the right of a selected subset of smart children. On the contrary, ISPF believes that humans are born scientific regardless of factors such as gender or family background. It's only a matter of sustaining the inherent interest and confidence to be curious, observant, experimentative and open minded.</blockquote>
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Our experience says that toys are extremely engaging. In over 8000 interactions with children aged between 3 and 16 so far, we haven't met a single child was not engaged in the activity.”</blockquote>
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Going forward , ISPF aims to create structured modules that can be integrated with the conventional school science and mathematics curriculum. Using these modules they propose to set up what they call "Rancho Llabs", where children will be encouraged to build, play, experiment, fail, learn and more importantly have fun with toys. The content itself is intended to be made available free of cost under the common license, but the real value would be to have the experience in the labs.</div>
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To this end, ISPF is open to tie-up with schools - private and public . They are also looking for funding from schools or any other institution. ISPF can be contacted by email (inispf@gmail.com). Their facebook page (<a href="https://www.facebook.com/scienceallaround">https://www.facebook.com/scienceallaround</a>) provides updated information on what they are up to.</div>
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-5665418544631197512015-10-07T06:15:00.000-07:002015-10-07T06:20:59.094-07:00Smart city plan is an insult to common man's intellect<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The definition of Smart Cities as envisioned by the Indian Government in their <a href="http://smartcities.gov.in/writereaddata/What%20is%20Smart%20City.pdf">website </a>is reproduced verbatim as under<br />
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By definition, if one is an unfortunate citizen of a "dumb city", one is
not entitled to any of the above regardless of whether one pays the
taxes and carries out other duties as a citizen. Why should any of this be exclusive to a "Smart City". Isn't any city, suburb or village in India entitled basic amenities such as adequate water supply, sanitation and safety? Isn't this another form of blatant discrimination?<br />
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By boldly posting the definition on its website and expecting endorsement, the government insults the intellect of the common man.</div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-90678205468293098162015-09-15T05:36:00.001-07:002015-09-15T05:36:39.397-07:00A snippet from "Mindset" by Carol Dweck<p dir="ltr">Posting what lept up and caught my attention </p>
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Lets think about
education at school and its current status in India.</div>
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">Our government schools are
undesirable to us citizens. We send our children to government schools if we can't
afford private schools, or if we are<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">Our public education depends
on budget allocation and hence driven by economy. </span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">Though there are improvements in public education (RTE, play-way methods and achievement of universal enrollment) quality remains sub-standard, it would be fair to say that it hasn't evolved fast enough to match the need.</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">Our private schools range
from cheap to expensive ones. In general they prepare students to be the
workforce for India's private and public enterprises. They prepare
them for work, but not for life. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span></span></li>
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enterprises and it’s a sellers' market. Schools dictate the price of the
commodity,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>they assess the quality
of the raw material (read children) before being used as an input,<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>and tailor the finished product (read
students finishing 12th grade or equivalent) to meet a standard (read college entrance exams!).
If it mandates, they have the free hand to get rid of the raw material midway,
if they feel that not doing so would significantly diminish the perceived
reputation of the business (school). </span></li>
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significant percentage of family expenditure regardless of whether<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>the school is a cheap or an expensive
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I am no expert in
education, even though I am interested enough to read, watch and
discuss a lot about constantly. I think the above summary fairly captures the reality
about today's education in India. Needless to say, this has to change. But how
should education be?</div>
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Stakeholders should
recognize<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>that employability does not
completely define success in education. It is only one dimension of success.
What defines complete success of education is, in itself, is a worthy matter of
debate, research and stakeholders are better of forming a framework for this.
However, in my opinion, when a child turns sixteen, if she recognizes</div>
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idea of how to pursue it,</span></li>
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makes her curious rather than insecure</span></li>
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use it as a lesson</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">that excellence can be
attained through resilient pursuit, constant endeavor to improve rather
than "high adrenaline, last minute" preparation</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">that mental, physical health
as important as professional success</span></li>
<li style="margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 0; vertical-align: middle;"><span style="font-family: Calibri; font-size: 11.0pt;">that social responsibility is
relevant</span></li>
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the school would
have played its part. Clearly, only academic excellence as the primary aim
doesn't do justice to this end. If children right across the different strata of
the society are to be empowered, the school system should be highly
research-oriented, personalized, universal (inclusive of children with economic
and learning disadvantages) and evolving.</div>
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To make it
research-oriented and personalized, teaching position should be made reputed
enough to attract in the best minds. Such individuals should be empowered by
the stakeholders (government, parents, school administration) to design or
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To make it
universal, education should be decoupled from yearly budget allocations or
reduction and the uncertainties of market economics. Education should be cheap
if not free.</div>
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To make education an evolution, exams should be considered as much an assessment of teaching quality as it is of learning ability.</div>
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Countries and local
governments best known for their education system already implement the above suggestion. Finland, considered to have the best education system in the world, offers free education with highly personalized curriculum designed and customized by
empowered teachers. USA, despite a lot of criticism of its educational policies,
has a lot of best minds like <a href="http://multipleintelligencesoasis.org/">Howard
Gardner</a>, <a href="http://www.mindsetworks.com/">Carol Dweck</a> and
multitudes of school teachers and teacher-trainers devising, customizing and implementing teaching
methodologies at all school levels.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A
look at <a href="http://www.edutopia.org/">Edutopia</a> would give an idea about the mind-boggling churn around education. I
don't see this level of energy at the school level in any of the stakeholders here in
India, though we do have positive outliers like <a href="http://www.vikalpsangam.org/article/marudam-farm-school-becoming-while-it-is-being/#.VfWS9pfj31U">Maduram
schools</a>, <a href="http://www.vikalpsangam.org/article/a-barefoot-journey-to-tilonia/#.VfWTNU3otVI">Barefoot
college</a>, <a href="http://www.thebetterindia.com/32176/government-school-rural-chhatisgarh-anusuya-jain/#sthash.DTI0re0C.dpuf">Government Primary School in Motwada </a>and Azim Premji University.</div>
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Following the
footsteps of those who have tasted success is a good start, but devising our
own strategy<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>in education is just as important to ensure quality. I
would like to put forth one radical idea here - as a question rather than a suggestion. To my knowledge this isn't done
in any other country.</div>
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Given that education
has to be universal, economically insulated from the market uncertainties and
unprejudiced, is there a good case for making education as the fourth branch of
democracy alongside legislature, executive and judiciary? After all, judiciary
is largely not affected by the prejudice of the government, judges and judicial
staff do get paid even though they don't add any value to the market (nobody
asks where the money comes from!) and education of our children play as
important a role in the future of our society<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-14022223248435704852015-07-16T18:59:00.001-07:002015-07-16T18:59:41.183-07:00A chance to learn Storytelling!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
As a student at school, how good a teacher taught directly affected whether I understood and hence whether I loved a particular topic of discussion or not. With a little experience at teaching under my belt, I hold an opinion that a good teacher is so significantly because she is a good storyteller.<br />
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As a father I try to surround my daughter with books and puppets to keep her engaged in stories told by humans and books instead of TVs and mobile phones. With limited success I must add, but that is a subject matter of a different post.<br />
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Chennai and Bangalore citizens have an opportunity to be better storytellers this August and September. Kathai Kalatta is organizing a Storytelling Festival
titled, "Under The Aaladamaraam".<br />
I hope that this would be a great experience for interested parents, teachers and creators!<br />
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Here are details of the event at <a href="http://www.kathaikalatta.com/the-bengaluru-chapter.html">Bangalore</a> and <a href="http://www.kathaikalatta.com/under-the-aalamarama.html">Chennai</a>. See you there! Have fun! <br />
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-30150123101694660772015-07-14T01:51:00.002-07:002015-07-14T01:52:20.030-07:00This ad just floored me!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-75576961098048390542015-07-05T23:54:00.000-07:002015-07-05T23:54:04.538-07:00Congrats Indian Womens' Hockey team!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Oh cricket-crazy Indians! This is to bring to your narrow attention the achievements of the Indian Women's Hockey team. After a lone appearance in the Olympics 35 long years ago, the hockey eves are all set to make the cut again. This is following their credible victory over a much higher ranked Japan to finish 5th in the recently concluded Hockey World League in Antwerp Belgium.</div>
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So, after following both the Men's and the Women's hockey through the Hockey World League Semifinal tournament, I find that the Indian eves are among the fastest improving sides (along with Italy). Men's team who finished a decent fourth, haven't managed to beat any better ranked team and had actually struggled against lower ranked teams like France, Malaysia and Pakistan before avoiding a loss (No complaints though. This only shows that Indian Men have neither over performed, nor underperformed).</div>
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-19392944663063956432015-05-01T01:29:00.001-07:002015-05-01T19:12:34.590-07:00To Barkha on her "Women In the World Summit" comment<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Barkha. In general, I find a lot of the interviews you conduct difficult to handle because many a time you express what you feel about the issue under discussion before you ask a question. In general, India's mainstream media is not standing up for the average Indian and doesn't ask the questions she wants to ask. <br />
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HOWEVER, on this one, I must say I am on your side. While Indian men AND women don't treat their women well, I don't see any reason why India has to be singled out. While the brutality against women akin to Nibhaya happens all over the world daily, the sustained protest that this incident has evoked in India is unique and this is a clear positive. But the rest of the media and the larger public have chosen to ignore it when the Leslee and you tried to highlight this. I choose to see the positive that the protest is. Amidst all the chaos and negative reaction your opinion has unintentionally caused, I see your positive point! On this one, I am with you!<br />
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-79688838533071627822015-04-22T21:10:00.001-07:002015-04-22T21:10:22.035-07:00IPL in the Stadium : Great, but not a value for money!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I had taken my family to the Stadium to watch the IPL cricket match between RCB and CSK. At Rs. 2750/- per ticket, it was quite an expenditure. But I reasoned that it should be justifiable since it would almost be a once-in-a-lifetime expenditure. I should say the atmosphere was electric. The view of the pitch was great! The match was competitive for the most part and we got to see a few famous players fairly close by. The food was alright. However, I wouldn't say that the experience was worth the money spent. For a for highly prized ticket that has a seat number printed, I would expect that security of your seat would be a minimum guarantee. But it wasn't the case. The cops were old, callous and discourteous, and the crew was working hard in throwing out poor vendors who have entered the gallery to make a few rupees. Instead had they cared about throwing visitors who bought a much cheaper ticket (or who knows no ticket) and sneaked into ours (and I could spot them!) it would have made it worth the money spent. </div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-26679124833404628042015-03-31T07:35:00.002-07:002015-03-31T07:35:22.072-07:00Competitive sporting and financial security<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I went to put my daughter for swimming classes for the summer. The coach was an affable young lady with the curiosity of a kid. So she opened up easily when asked about her swimming background. She said she was a state level swimmer and was doing well at the nationals. At one point she had to choose between competitive swimming, which is a shot at glory, but comes with financial uncertainties, and coaching school kids. She pointed to an old poor looking woman at the edge of the pool and said "My mom used to work as a house help. Coaching brings regular income to my family. So I chose coaching over competitive swimming". I do not know if this is a representative case. But it complements the sentiment other news reports about poor sportsmen and sportswomen in lesser followed sports. It appears that India has a better chance of converting sporting potential into medals if sportsmen and sportswomen of poor backgound are rewarded with fiinancial security for their perseverance</div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-11288727734747861392015-03-27T12:09:00.001-07:002015-03-27T21:21:48.232-07:00A yardstick to measure the success of AAP<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
We all know about the Aam Aadmi Party and what it has managed to do to the Indian politics. Opinions about the party is always strong and polarized mainly because they have either failed big or achieved big. I am no unconditional supporter of the party (or any other party), but the fact that a few people with no political background have managed to upstage a couple of well-established political parties - twice makes this series of events rare to come by. However, does this mean that an end in social good is reached? Does this mean that the popular ideology (idea of Lokpal Bill) of the party is relevant? Not necessarily. However, I see that a couple of important underlying ideas behind the Lokpal Bill are grievance redressal (for example, someone affected by corruption) and easy access to preventive measures on grievance (for example, whistle-blowing). This is an end that, in my opinion, that has subconsciously attracted people to the idea of Aam Aadmi Party. But that is also an end very far away. I think success of this rare series of events that led to the rise of the Aam Aadmi Party should be measured using this yardstick. If this end isn't reached eventually, then the Aam Aadmi Party, its success would be irrelevant.<br />
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-49922283361514532972015-03-23T00:06:00.000-07:002015-03-23T00:06:15.811-07:00Lest we forget - Sardar Bhagat Singh<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Today is the day when revolutionary <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bhagat_Singh">Sardar Bhagat Singh </a>was hanged.<br />
I believe strength of any feeling, especially nationalism, should be proportional to the gravity of the situation. Those who criticize his ways are entitled to judge him as someone who saw the world through the magnifying lens called emotion, and call his actions knee jerk. However, the fact is that it was a tumultuous time and he was hanged at an impressionable age of 23, by an imperialist government. <br />
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Lest we forget that he had his hand in inspiring the youth to nationalism at a time when it was needed. Lest we forget that he played a positive role (however small or big it is) in making India what it is today.</div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-11540552150469015162015-03-21T09:24:00.000-07:002015-03-21T09:24:06.600-07:00World Storytelling Day!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Yesterday, March 20th was World Storytelling Day. A quick read about this in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/World_Storytelling_Day">Wikipedia</a> did not reveal anything specifically exciting. However, as I am a father of a curious child, the idea of story telling remains a matter of interest to me. For the same reason, I am surprised that I didn't consciously think about and explore this till now. Now is as good a time as any!<br />
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The first story that I listened to was <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gajendra_Moksha">Gajendra Moksham</a> as told by my mother upon locating a sculpture that represented the story at a temple. That was probably about thirty years ago. Since then, I must have listened to a lot of stories primarily related to the great epics Ramayana and Mahabharata. The fact that most of what I know of the these two epics is primarily because of my grandmother's narrative is testimony to the amount of time I spent listen to the stories.<br />
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Upon reminiscing about this experience, I think the impact of the story on the listener depends as much, if not more, on the narrative and the emotional connect the listener has with the teller, as the quality of its content. I think the derived moral of stories that we listen to, watch or read as a child settles beneath the conscious mind and plays its part, on how we react to situations and what opinion we form.<br />
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I find that there are organizations working in this space targeting young impressionable minds in the hope of improving their experience and enriching their personalities. <a href="http://www.kiddywiki.com/home.html">Kid and Parent Foundation </a>and <a href="http://www.meetup.com/Bangalore-Storytelling-Society-Meetup/">Bangalore Storytelling Society</a> are the curious cases in Bangalore!</div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-77064515203736738832014-09-03T22:49:00.001-07:002014-09-03T22:49:46.747-07:00On trafficking and exploitation of women<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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By sheer coincidence, I have been coming across written material related to trafficking and exploitation of women over the last couple of days. I read this piece in <a href="http://www.livemint.com/Politics/NF6no9ZEl1TQWyV2CLF8LI/The-human-cost-of-sex-trafficking.html">Livemint</a> that provides insight on emotional, financial and practical dynamics of trafficking. It is a very well-written and hence a very depressing article. </div>
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I hadn't yet managed to get over it, when I came across another news article which reported that a once promising actress has been arrested and sent to women's home after she turned to prostitution because she ran out of options to earn her and her family's living. This piece is even more unsettling for so many different reasons. Firstly, it revealed the identity of the victim and hence has possibly (and I am not sure) disregarded the victims right to keep identity confidential . </div>
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Secondly, the "pimp" with who she was caught "was sent to jail". It gives me a feeling that there is an element of finality to it. Criminal sent to jail, victim sent to women's home and the case is closed. If it is true, it is a pity because the better informed would know that the rot runs much deeper than that (as highlighted by the aforementioned article in Livemint). </div>
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Thirdly, and this is closely related to the second, the victim has mentioned on record that she is neither the first nor the only one to have taken this route. This reminds me of a TED talk by Sunita Krishnan which tries to emphasize even though these show up as isolated incidents that we come across from time to tome, they are actually a manifestation of one staggeringly lucrative organized crime (one-fifth of India's GDP). </div>
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Clearly, cleaning up this mess is long overdue and our community would do well for itself to take a more collective action. But, in the light of proximity between failure to make it big in the movie industry and being forced into prostitution, would it be excessive to claim that the cinema industry is morally more obligated and better placed to start an initiative and call the rest of the society address this issue ? After all, we all know what Amir Khan has done in Satyamev Jayate and his nephew has taken action on of what is clearly <a href="http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/25-year-drinking-age-Filmstar-Imran-Khan-to-file-PIL/articleshow/8857046.cms">an issue </a>of a much lesser degree. </div>
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-73759252414229681382014-08-28T02:19:00.000-07:002014-08-28T02:19:18.452-07:00The year of the Crop Insurance<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I don't see why this can't be put to use in India!<br />
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-16417221090597816572014-08-15T22:29:00.001-07:002014-08-15T22:29:52.352-07:00BBC should write a book<p>BBC should write a text book on news broadcasting and shove it down the throats of its Indian counterparts and graduate students of mass media. The high standards is very obvious.<br>
Those on camera from the newsroom, BBC anchor or a guest, talk. Not yell. Reporters and correspondents yell if there is shelling or a hurricane in the background. The news presenters dress in pleasent attire and in colours that fit well with that of the newsroom. The presenters smile while delivering a happy news and dont while delivering a sad or neutral news. They remain dispassionate otherwise. All of them do it and they make it look easy.<br>
The sceen has a BBC logo and one line of running news. No cluttering ads urging us to download its apps or use a deo that promises drive hot women go wild. The news or news transitions are not accompanied by submerging music in background. Recap of headlines come with the familiar and mild music.<br>
One last thing. The presenters and correspondents come from diverse religious and ethnic background. They dont go around yelling about it but shows that it is a delibrate attempt to be diverse.<br>
As I said, they should write a book and shove it down our newspersons throat. We deserve better than what we get in the name of news now.</p>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-41008931352012456022014-08-12T05:41:00.001-07:002014-08-12T05:50:06.982-07:00The Unique, Compassionate genie meets an Ironic end<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
I came to know of Robin Williams as Mrs. Doubtfire. (S)he was a unique character. I guessed the fact that Robin Williams produced the eponymous movie, before looking up <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mrs._Doubtfire">Wikipedia</a> to verify it. For, at least to me, "unique" completely defines Robin Williams too! And who played the lead role in the movie Aladin? I don't know. But, at the mention of the word, the first picture that flashes across my mind is the ever-effusive sky-blue slave Genie! Not Aladin!<br />
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None can dispute his unparalleled talent in comedy and mimicry. However, that is not why I respect Robin Williams. He is well known as a comedian. But, in all the roles that I have seen him play, the familiar, kind smile didn't portray comedy so much as it did compassion . In fact, in a few movies such as "Good Will Hunting", comedy was conspicuous in its absence, but can one recall a movie where compassion was missing?<br />
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Nothing can be more apt an example to define the word "Irony" than his death. A man who has made many laugh and feel has died because of depression. I think the oft-used statement in obituaries written for artists "A tragic and irreplaceable loss for the world of art" has to be repeated, for when it refers to Robin Williams, it can never be cliche.<br />
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Robin Williams. Rest In Peace</div>
Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-8429684517369092612014-04-15T23:40:00.001-07:002014-04-15T23:40:24.331-07:00What can your servant maid tell?<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Have you ever heard from your servant maid (current and earlier) that her husband who is a daily wager or an auto rickshaw driver squanders their earnings on boozing? Has she tell you that she had to pay Rs. 700/- or so to get her unsafe LPG illegally from a local shop? Has she ever told you that she is worried about her teenage daughter and thinking of getting her married off because she her drunkard husband talks nonsense at home? Does she bargain for higher increase in her wage every year because it barely meets her daily expenses? When we talk about "Aam Admi", does it dawn on you that we wrongly see ourselves, and that she fits the description better? Why aren't the politicians talking any more about how they plan to get rid of the bottle and his friends from her home? Don't politicians have a servant maid at home? Or do they choose not to listen to her just like you and I? </div>
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-32568848186275514832014-04-14T21:50:00.000-07:002014-04-15T07:19:18.227-07:00Credits to BESCOM<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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My family had a tiring day a couple of nights ago because of work and minor ailments and accumulated sleep deprivation over the previous week. The sleep that night was a much needed one. But a couple of hours into the night we we woke up to a power outage and found that our backup supply has drained. With heat and mosquitoes, the next half-an-hour or so was difficult to get by. Unable to take it any longer, I called the land-line number given in the <a href="http://bescom.org/en/">BESCOM </a>(responsible for power supply in Bangalore) website, without expecting a response. But to my surprise, a lady responded within the first ring and clarified that the incoming power supply line to one of the grids of Bangalore was damaged and that the repair works were in progress. She added that it is expected to be resolved by 2:00 AM. The power was restored at 2:30 AM. That someone actually answered my call was surprising enough for me to take the half-an-hour delay without qualms. Credits to BESCOM!</div>
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-81979405434928292014-02-15T20:28:00.001-08:002014-02-15T20:28:14.483-08:00Happy Birthday Gayathri!<iframe allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="344" src="//www.youtube.com/embed/3OGL0Ss6In8" width="459"></iframe>Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-7276720253179444792014-02-11T04:50:00.000-08:002014-02-11T04:50:07.045-08:00The opportunity of adversity<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
"The only true disability is a crushed spirit" <br />
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The following is not my advice. But I think they are lovely. Read it. Take what is sensible to you and discard the rest!<br />
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Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-88714580761456174782012-04-27T20:38:00.001-07:002012-04-27T20:38:25.375-07:00Bad news<div><p>One of the the traits I have failed to develop so far is to deliver a bad news to a stranger without feeling bad about it. The bad feeling that I have from the time conception to delivery of the news, sometimes counted in days, causes low levels of prolonged stress. Often my discomfort shows up on my face and the receiver takes advantage of my sensitivity. I wish to develop a thick skin. But how do I know if it crosses the limit to become insensitivity? Or should I even care?</p>
</div>Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16861130.post-84306464857237374242012-04-06T19:04:00.001-07:002012-04-06T19:04:39.156-07:00Reading tell me why!<div><br/><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjwHvRg6NZjgxa6v4CT5mL6n4YzOQLdpJiLv3gGORIRTCNncoKCSPdYSGePpCf-6nXFUemmKO0a_THIhgHuxgF2T4IPlPclGI_529plxL5Z7YCiYsUiYnCcvTk5bFq0aHukLHoWMQ//' /></div>Badhrihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15549143296407318099noreply@blogger.com0